Coupling for Couples: Is There Such a Thing as Sexy Sexins' with Your Spouse That Are Off Limits?

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Is There Such a Thing as Sexy Sexins' with Your Spouse That Are Off Limits?

are there things that just shouldn't be allowed between consenting spouses? things that would hurt or bother God?

thoughts on this? are there limitations within a marriage bed about what is sacred and pure and what is sinful?

anyone have any opinions? before i give mine, i'm curious what y'all think....

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AnonymousJanuary 12, 2011 at 5:23 AM
First of all, that comic is hilarious. Secondly, I believe God is clear about one thing: the marriage bed is holy. What couples desire to in bed (use of toys, apparently a man wearing his wife's bra, whatever does it for ya) should be an open discussion and if anyone is uncomfortable with anything it's simply off limits until that changes. There are circumstances of one person serving the other, but a spouse should never be pushing through discomfort. When gettin' it on with your spouse, it should be sexy/fun, of course, but I do believe it should be centered on comfort and love (and never include other people mentally, through the media, or otherwise). Could discuss this much longer, but there are my basic thoughts:)
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this blog is designed for people who love God and their spouse and sex. or want to love sex.

my concern is that committed christian couples struggle with sex. in a misguided effort to protect young people from themselves, we teach young christians to fear sex and to equate it with sin. consequently, when they get married and are expected to suddenly jump head first into a fulfilling sexual relationship with their new spouse after years of being told sex is bad and to deny their urges, there is trouble. and for many couples, sex is a major conflict for them their first couple years of marriage.

who do they turn to to get a clue about how sex works and how to make it work when it's not working? that's where i'd like this blog to come in. i am not an expert. but i am an extremely happily married, sexually satisfied Christian woman. i am also in medicine, and so have some insight into sexual anatomy and function/ dysfunction. there's so much to say about sex and marriage, let's talk about it! everything is fair game. please give me your comments and questions. happy sexin', everybody!

Wisdom and Such

"To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms, but the devil slapped on the genitals. " ~Don Schrader

"Sex is an emotion in motion." -Mae West

"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth. For your love is better than wine." -Song of Songs 1:2

"For you see, marriage is a lot like an orange. First, you have the skin... then the sweet, sweet innards..." - Homer Simpson

"I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, 'the man goes on top and the woman underneath.' For three years my husband and I slept in bunk beds." - Joan Rivers

"My girlfriend always laughs during sex – no matter what she’s reading. " – Steve Jobs

"Personally I know nothing about sex because I’ve always been married." – Zsa Zsa Gabor